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Writing your first invitation

The reason first, a few short lines, then the link. Then wait.

Start with why the person came to mind. Keep it to a few sentences, share the invitation, and let them reply in their own time.

What you can send

Your invitation

“Hi [name], you came to mind because [something specific about them]. We're building Encounter around community, learning, and travel, and I think you'd really enjoy [the part that fits them]. Here's your invitation. Have a look and let me know if you'd like to explore it with us. [your invitation link]”

What to leave out

Leave out the full explanation, the apology, and the request for a call. The invitation does the explaining, and the call comes once they're interested.

Make it yours

Make it yours

  • What's the specific reason for this person?
  • Would you send a message or a voice note?

For example: “You came to mind because you've been saying all year that you want to travel with friends again. I think you'd love the trips we're planning together. Here's your invitation. Have a look and let me know what you think.”

Sources

  • Encounter team training in Málaga, "An invitation worth sharing," 9 October 2026. Available in the Community.

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